What A Real Woman Wants

Recently, I’ve been considering that age old question that men believe has been so elusive. What do woman want? I can’t speak for all woman, but my most recent break-up has taught me the four things I desire from a man for him to be considered a contender for my heart. It is these four things, that when attacked, create hostility inside of me, which stands in direct conflict of my nature. Our male counterparts are meant to be our protectors, so for a man to show his value in protection, he needs to be able to protect the mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual aspects within myself.

I have always considered the way I think and interpret information to be my best asset. While I may not have shared my thoughts with others often, I still held in high regard my own perspective, because it caused less confusion in a world where I was consistently left in the dark. As I start blossoming within my new divine purpose, I am now understanding just how valuable my mind is to the Most High. He created me with a special type of intellect to help awaken the souls of others who hear my words. My mind is the most beautiful gift God has given me.

Because I want nothing more than to lead in love and light, I need a man that will protect my emotions. Leading in love and light usually means I also have a childlike naivete that makes me vulnerable to emotional attacks. These attacks cause intense pain to my heart because these attacks are usually done by people I’ve loved. I now believe my naïve nature triggers the inner child wounds of those around me. I now must utilize emotional intelligence or logic to combat the attacks on my inner child, due to the jealousies of others because I allow my inner child to roam free. A man that wants to come into my life, needs to be willing to protect my inner child, because she has been through enough.

I also need to feel protected on a physical plane. I need to know that I am protected from other physical bodies that may attempt to taint the physical manifestation of how we express our love. Lack of protection to my physical, gives root to fear and anxiety. Living in a constant state of survival, not knowing if I will survive the aftermath of our next encounter. Safety allows my feminine nature to dominate over my masculine nature. This is about balance.

Lastly, I need a man who will protect my spirituality. It is apparent that my spirituality has a direct connection with God, the source from which all things flow. For man to partake in the blessings that follow my connection, I believe a man is duty bound to protect this element of myself with his life. There is a saying that says, there is nothing more powerful than a God-Fearing, Praying woman. If my desire is to be for my husband, then my desire is also for my husband to be connected to the source that flows through me.

I never considered these four elements of my being as vital until they were under attack simultaneously. I have now realized that when these four elements are aligned within me, I am able to transcend to a level of power that lies dormant within so many women, because we were made afraid to acknowledge this power even existed. I can not say with certainty, that this is what all women want, what I can say is with experience the lack of protection of any or all these elements creates a detrimental cosmic wave to a man who would violate these laws within the universe.

Of course, I must explain how the protection of these elements benefit a man. Protecting my mental allows me to impart the wisdom of life, which will keep you safe from harm. Protecting my emotions allows me to heal the wound inflicted on your inner child by forces beyond your control. Protecting my physical allows you to feel secure in the faithfulness of your wife knowing that she is yours and you are hers. Finally, protection of my spiritual will allow you access to the manifestations of whatever your heart desires. This is nirvana. This is abundance. This is love.